增加而不是减少

明曲

【Brenda Hoffman】9月17日

《增加而不是减少》

Dear Ones,

亲爱的一们

Many of your lives are changing in ways you did not anticipate a few months ago. That shift brought some fears to the forefront.

你们许多人的生活在你几个月前都没有预料到的方式中改变。这个改变将一些恐惧带到了前沿

For earth eons, a change was programmed to be fearful. So it is you ponder your decisions with trepidation only to discover that your new life, direction, or relationship is more comfortable than you anticipated.

因为恒古以来，改变被编程为可怕的。所以你伴随着惊恐沉思你的决定，却发现你的新生活、方向或人际关系比起预料的更加舒适

You are discovering change is not necessarily frightening or a step back, if you will. For the change, you are creating is your new comfort zone.

你在发现改变不一定是可怕的或是退步，如果你愿意这么说。因为改变，你正在创造的是你新的舒适地带

In 3D, you most often built foundations on shaky ground. Of course, such was a given in 3D for you wished to experience fear in all its ramifications. So you built what you thought was a stable future only to have it shift in ways that created fear. Such has been and is true for all of 3D.

在3D中，你经常在不稳定的地基上建立基础。当然，这是3D中给定的，因为你希望体验所有恐惧的分支。所以你建立你认为是一个稳定的未来，只为了会在创造恐惧的方式中转变它。每个在3D中的人都是这样的

Change for you now is creating a stable foundation upon which you can build your new life.

现在改变对你来说就是创造一个稳定的基础，你可以用来建立你的新生活

You will not necessarily know immediately that such is true, for you will ponder your decision wondering what you did wrong, instead of glorying in what you did right. So it is you are slowly – in our thoughts, but rapidly in yours – accepting that fear is over. You are realizing you can adapt your comfort zone any way you wish when you wish. For your comfort zone is easily malleable as you evolve and grow.

你不一定会立刻就知道这是真的，因为你会沉思你的决定，想知道你做错了什么，而不是在你做对之事中得意。所以你在缓慢地---在我们的想法中，但在你的想法中是快速的---接纳恐惧已经完结。你在意识到你可以在你希望的任何方式中适应你的舒适地带。因为你的舒适地带随着你的进化和成长可以轻易塑造。

In 3D, your decisions most often had grave or long-term results that were not easily shifted even if your outer circumstances changed quickly. So it was that you dreaded change for you could see the fear dominoes falling one by one even if that change seemed to be for the better.

在3D中，你的决定经常产生重大或长期的结果，并不容易转变，即使你外在的情况改变地很快。所以你害怕改变，因为你可以看到恐惧的多米诺骨牌一个接一个地倒下，即使那个改变看似是往好的方向发展

You most often felt as if you wanted to be in two places at the same time – your former life and your new life leaving a somewhat bitter taste of sadness within you.

你经常感到好像你想要在同一时间处于两个地点---你之前的生活和你新的生活在你之内留下了一丝悲伤的苦涩

Of course, you counter that winning or gathering millions of dollars would not feel so and we beg to differ. For in 3D that “lucky” person needed to decide what part of life he or she would leave behind to fit within the social dictates for their higher or lower socioeconomic status. And once they began spending those millions, discovering that they likely did not fit within their old social strata nor their new one. The same would be true for those who lost financial resources. Either direction of financial gain or loss created a personal world of social isolation. As if the world were passing them by because they were not quite right in either world.

当然，你反驳，赢得或得到数百万美元就不会有这样的感受，我们不敢苟同。因为在3D中，那个“幸运”的人需要决定他/她会抛下生活的哪一部分来融入社会规定的更高或较低经济地位。一旦他们开始花费那些钱，发现他们可能不再适合之前的社会阶层也无法融入新的社会阶层。这同样适用于那些失去财务资源的人。经济的获得或损失都会创造一个社交孤立的个体世界。好似世界在擦肩而过，因为他们在任何一个世界都不恰当

The same was true for disease, behaviors, and so many other indicators that as a result, you were not quite who you used to be so those you depended on for social interaction or approval were no longer in your circle.

对于疾病、行为以及许多其他作为结果的指标同样如此，你已经不是你曾经的那个人，所以那些你与之社交或寻求认可的人不再处于你的圈子中

That coupled with trying to determine how best to live your life despite a major shift and likely, social isolation, created an ongoing fear multiplied tenfold with each earth life. Creating the fear of change you are now exploring as you slowly realize that change means stability instead of crumbling structures and relationships.

这加上试图决定如何最好地过你的生活，不管有着重大的转变以及社交孤立，创造了一个不间断的恐惧，伴随着每一个地球生世十倍地叠加。创造了你正在探索的对改变的恐惧，随着你缓慢地意识到改变意味着稳定而不是摇摇欲坠的结构和人际关系

You likely contend that such is not possible for change leaves part of you behind, that you always lose something with any change. Ah, new you is learning that instead of leaving something or someone behind, you are adding to your structure, your stability.

你可能争论这怎么可能，因为改变会让你抛弃你的一部分，你总是伴随着任何的改变在损失什么。啊，新的你正在学习与其抛下什么或某个人，你在增加你的结构，稳定性

Those who do not relish your shift will not be of interest to you, unlike the pain of 3D loss. For you are discovering they were never truly part of your being, merely social connections which seemed important in 3D but are no longer.

那些并不享受你转变的人不会对你感兴趣，不像3D的损失痛苦。因为你在发现他们从未真正是你存在的一部分，只是社会联系在3D中看似重要，但不再如此

Social connections were your 3D key elements of success. If you were poor, your friends were in similar circumstances either emotionally or physically. And if you were wealthy, the same would be true.

社会联系是你3D成功的关键元素。如果你贫穷，你的朋友会处于相似的情况中，无论是情感上还是物理上。如果你富有，亦是如此

Now as you build structures from your heart, there is no need to find common financial or social expectations. For those who touch your heart will not be those who want you to be like them. Instead, they will want you to be a beacon of light as is true for them.

现在，随着你根据心建立结构，不再需要去寻找共同的财务或社会期望。因为那些触动你心的人不会是那些想要你和他们一样的人。而是，他们会想要你成为灯塔

Social graces, objects, neighborhoods, friends, etc. are now from the heart, not from social shoulds. So it is you are becoming a mature Universal being.

社会礼仪、物品、邻居、朋友等等，现在都来自于心，而不是社会的应该。所以你在成为一个成熟的宇宙存在

Do you remember when you wanted to be part of your high school “in” crowd? And how devastated you were if you were not invited to the right parties or events? But once you found your way as a 3D adult, those “in” crowd needs became silly, sad, or nostalgic depending how you matured.

你是否还记得你想要成为高中“内部”人群的时候？如果你未被邀请到正确的派对或事件你是多么地哀鸣？但一旦你发现自己是一个3D的成年人，那些“内部”人群的需求变得愚蠢、悲哀或怀旧，取决于你的成熟度

So it is now. It does not matter if you are wearing the right clothes, have the “coolest” car, or invite the right people to your parties. It only matters that you feel a heart attachment and you are comfortable – with few or no social shoulds and have tos.

现在就是这样。并不重要你是否穿着恰当的衣服，拥有“最酷”的汽车，或者邀请正确的人到你的派对中。唯一重要的是你感到一个心的依恋，你是舒适的---伴随着些许或没有社会的应该以及必须条款

You no longer need to “Keep up with the Joneses” or feel insecure about your social or financial standing. For your beacon of light will draw those who have a similar beacon with a similar comfortable life.

你不再需要“攀比”或对你的社会或财务状况感到不安。因为你的灯塔会吸引那些拥有类似灯塔，类似舒适生活的人

Those who continue to strive will not be comfortable in this new world. For they are hounded by shoulds and have tos.

那些继续挣扎的人会在这个新世界很不舒服。因为他们被应该和必须条款追捕

Those you find attractive and attracted to you are creating comfort zones for themselves and will they care very little about what others think or feel about their lives.

那些你发现有吸引力以及被你吸引的人在为自己创造着舒适地带，他们不会在乎其他人对他们的生活拥有什么样的想法或感受

You are becoming a mature Universal adult as you create a life right for you and no one else. So be it. Amen.

你在成为一个成熟的宇宙存在，随着你创造适合你而不是别人的生活。就是如此。阿门

翻译：Nick Chan https://mp.weixin.qq.com/s/BT3QhA81SEtdKOwq7PL9iQ