【造物能量】失去友谊

明曲

造物能量-失去友谊

Dear Ones,
亲爱的
You are discovering you do not react as you have in the past. Another difference you have perhaps yet to note is you are becoming more self-sufficient and courageous.
你在发现你不再像过去那样起反应。另一个你可能还未注意到的不同就是你变得更加自给自足和勇敢
Perhaps you are saying, “No,” as others try to have you meet their needs. Perhaps you are not bothering with former niceties. Or perhaps you are no longer interested in areas that used to interest you. It does not matter how you display your independence and courage, for the end-product is the same for all – the freedom to be.
也许你在说“不”，随着他人试图让你去满足他们的需求。也许你不再对之前的拘泥细节感到困扰。或者你不再对之前令你感兴趣的领域感兴趣。你如何展示自己的自立和勇气不重要，因为最终产品都是一样的---成为的自由
This first holiday season of freedom is likely confusing. For many of you are questioning your former and current actions, as well as the actions of others. You are deciding which, if any, of your holiday traditions hold enough interest for you to continue. At the same time, others are pressuring you to be who you used to be.
这个第一个自由的节日季节很可能令人困惑。因为许多人在至疑自己之前和当前的行为，以及他人的行为。你在确定哪一个，如果有的话，节日传统让你足够感兴趣继续下去。与此同时，其他人在给你加压去成为你曾经的所是
Even though this is not an easy time, you have prepared for years, perhaps decades. Part of you is fighting with yourself, and another part is fighting against the traditions that now mean little to you. So it continues with the December energies encouraging you to be you in all your glory.
即使这不是一个轻松的时间，你已经准备了很多年，也许几十年。你的一部分在和你一起战斗，另一部分在和现在对你来说没什么意义的传统战斗。所以十二月的能量在继续鼓励你去成为你自己
Maybe you are concerned that your friendship pool has become so small you are not completely comfortable with new you. Even though you have become an independent human angel, you maintain the human trait of wishing to interact with others lovingly. Such is not necessarily true for all human angels. But for many of you, friendship has become a concern.
也许你在担忧你的友谊池已经变得如此之小，你并不对新的你感到很舒适。即使你成为了一个自立的人类天使，你维持着希望有爱地与他人交互的人类特性。这并不一定适用于所有人类天使。但对于你们许多人，友谊已经成为一个担忧
You will create new interactions with those of like mind and discover new friends in the most unlikely places. But such information does not appease your current feelings of loneliness, of having to start over in the friendship realm.
你会和那些志同道合的人创造新的交互，在最意想不到的地方发现新的朋友。但这样的话语无法安抚你当前的孤独、想要在友谊领域重新开始的感受
We assure you that your friendship or relationship concerns will be circumvented in the coming months. For 2020 was about discovering yourself outside the social milieu. But then, not everyone self-isolated. By continuing their life as it was, those individuals missed some of the freedoms you developed.
我们向你保证，你的友谊或人际关系担忧会在未来几个月被解决。因为2020是关于在社会环境之外发现你自己。但，不是每个人都是自我隔绝的。通过继续他们之前的生活，那些人错过了你所发展的一些自由
That is not to say those not self-isolating are terrible people, merely that they were given a “get-out-of-jail-free” card they opted not to use. Does such a statement mean they are less spiritual than you? No, merely that they have opted for a more difficult road. Even though they helped create the en masse stop that was 2020, they did not take advantage of that stop.
这不是说那些并不自我隔绝的人是不好的，只是他们被给予了一张“出狱”卡牌但选择不去使用。这是不是意味着他们没有你灵性？不，只是他们选择一条更加困难的道路。即使他们帮助创造了2020年的集体停顿，他们并没有利用这个停顿
So it is some of your friends, or former friends are at a different place than those of you utilizing this year of solitude. And because they are at a different place, you likely do not have as much in common. Which is neither good nor bad, just different. A difference that might be difficult for some time as you flit from one interest to another. A bit like deciding at age 12 you are not interested in playing with an 8-year-old. Once you and the 8-year-old are both in your 30s. that age difference will mean little. And so it might be for those who opted not to utilize this year of solitude. They will need to double-task for a bit to catch-up to your freedom base.
所以你的一些朋友或之前的朋友处于和你们那些利用这个独处之年的人不一样的位置。因为他们处于一个不同的位置，你们可能没有什么共同点。这既不好也不坏，只是不同。一个会在一段时间内感到艰难的不同，随着你从一个兴趣跳到另一个。有点像在12岁的时候你不想要和8岁的人玩耍。一旦你和8岁的人来到了你的30岁。年龄差异就没什么意义了。所以那些选择不利用这个独处之年的人也是这样。他们会需要两倍的任务来赶上你的自由基础
Those who did not take advantage of 2020 will expect you to be who you were, for they are mostly who they were when the year began. Such is neither good nor bad, just how they followed their path. For some of those who did not embrace this year of solitude, it was a badge of honor that they did not. Just as was true for those of you who did. So for much of 2021, it is unlikely you will have much in common.
那些并没有利用2020年的人会期望你成为过去的那样，因为他们大多都是今年开始时的那样。这既不好也不坏，只是他们在跟随自己的道路。对于那些并没有拥抱这个独处之年的人，这是一个光荣的事情。就像你们那些拥抱了的人这也是一个光荣的事情。所以在2021，你们也不大可能会有什么共同之处
That last statement is not written in stone, but instead an observation of probabilities. So it is you will likely mourn what was – just as you might have when you left your childhood interests behind. At the same time, you will look forward to the possibilities of your new life and forge new friendships.
上面的陈述并不是铁板钉钉的，而是一个可能性的观察。所以你可能会哀悼曾经的---就像在你抛弃孩童时期的兴趣时会哀悼。与此同时，你会期待新生活的可能性并锻造新的友谊
That is not to say you will never interact with those friends who did not use this year of solitude to go within, but instead that it might take a bit of time for those friends to catch-up to you. Or you may never interact with them again, for, by the time they are at a similar place as you, you might have such different interests that your interactions are never the same.
这不是说你永远不会和并不使用这个独处之年去进入内在的朋友交互，而是可能需要一点时间让那些朋友赶上你。或者你可能永远不会再与他们交互，因为，当他们处于和你类似的位置，你可能拥有非常不同的兴趣，你们的交互永远不会再相同
That last thought might seem depressing to many of you, for you value your friendships. But just as you are different, so are your interests and interactions. You are more confident in your being and your direction. So even if friends used this year of solitude similar to what was true for you, you still may be on such different paths as not to intersect again.
上面的想法对许多人来说可能令人沮丧，因为你重视你的友谊。但就像你不一样了，你的兴趣和交互也不一样了。你在自己的存在和方向中更有信心。所以即使朋友和你一样利用这个独处之年，你们依旧可能会处于不同的道路，不会再交互
Which is no different than many of those persons with whom you attended grammar school. In all likelihood, you now have little in common with them, for your 3D adult path was different than theirs. You have the commonality of your school, but not enough other commonalities to maintain more than a passing relationship. Such did not affect your 3D life, nor your transition. So it will be for you as you move through 2021 and beyond.
就像那些和你一起上中学的人。很有可能，你现在和他们没什么共同点，因为你的3D成人道路和他们的不一样。你们拥有学校的共性，但没有其它的共性来维持一个流逝的人际关系。这不会影响你的3D生活，以及转变。所以随着你通过2021以及之上也是一样
You have evolved beyond expectations – what was and who you were are no longer. So those who are not interested in similar areas or on a different time track may not hold great interest for you. But there will be others who help you sparkle with joy and laughter. You are entering a dramatic new phase of your being. A phase that has never happened en masse on the earth before.
你的进化已经超越预期---曾经的和你曾经的所是不再。所以那些对类似的领域不感兴趣的人或处于不同时间轨道的人可能不会对你有很大兴趣。但会有其他人来帮助你伴随着喜悦和欢笑闪耀。你正在进入存在的一个戏剧性的新阶段。从未在地球上发生过的阶段
You are new. The earth is new. And your friendships will likely shift as a result. Allow that to be. And allow yourself to know that you will not be alone – if you flow into your new being, instead of stalling the inevitable to maintain friendships that no longer – and may never again – sparkle for you. So be it. Amen.
你是新的。地球也是新的。你的友谊因此也会转变。允许。让自己知道你不会孤身一人---如果你流入你的新存在，而不是拖延不可避免的，维持不再---可能再也不会---为你闪耀的人际关系。就是如此。

原文：https://lifetapestrycreations.wordpress.com/.../friendsh.../
传导：Brenda Hoffman
译者：NickChan