一颗完整的心

明曲

造物能量-一颗完整的心

Dear Ones,
亲爱的
Even though you have always had heart, you have hidden your heart for earth eons because it seemed others would not or could not return the love you had to give.
尽管你总是有心，你隐藏你的心恒久了，因为看似别人不会或无法把你给予的爱返回给你
Over the eons, you hardened your heart and the corresponding responses. Many of you became the consummate caretaker. But you did so to ensure someone would interact with you instead of a natural process.
恒久以来，你变硬了你的心以及相应的反应。你们许多人成为了完美的照看者。但你这么做是为了确保有人能够来与你交互，而不是这么做是一个自然的进程
You were not cold-hearted, instead you traded love for love – much as merchants trade for financial gain.
你并不是无情的，而是你在用爱换爱---就像商人那样
Perhaps you are upset for you believe you give with a complete and loving heart. And so you did when you were of 3D.
也许你不高兴，因为你认为你付出了全部的有爱的心。当你从属于3D的时候你就是这么做的
ThreeD love almost always has a purpose from “If I do this, God will love me” to “If I do this, my community or family will see what a wonderful person I am.” If that love was not reciprocated (rewarded), you left or harmed the individual or institution emotionally, physically, or spiritually with thoughts of “You’re not up to my love standards.”
3D的爱几乎总是有着一个目标，从“如果我做这个，shen会爱我”到“如果我做那个，我的社区或家人会看到我是一个多么棒的人。”如果那个爱没有回报（奖励），你就离开或者精神上、身体上、情感上伤害个体或团体（伴随着你配不上我的爱这样的想法）
ThreeD love was bartered just as is true for any earth merchandise.
3D的爱是交换类型的，就像任何地球上的商品
The love you are evolving into is broader and more profound. Because you are rewarding yourself with self-love, outer-rewards are no longer required.
你在进化到的爱更加广阔与深刻。因为你在用自爱奖励自己，外在的奖励不再被需要
ThreeD love was about filling your empty love cup. A cup that was empty because you did not love yourself.
3D的爱是关于填满你空的爱之杯子。因为你并不爱自己而变空的杯子
Once you allow yourself to fully love yourself, the antics of others will shift within you from “They hurt my feelings” or “Broke my heart” to “They must function like that for a reason.” Your choices then become encourage those actions, shift your interactions, or ignore the supposed slight and move on.
一旦你让自己完全爱自己，别人的滑稽动作会在你之内从“他们伤害了我的感觉”或“伤了我的心”转变到“他们这么做肯定有原因。”你的选择要么会鼓励那些行为、转变你的交互或者忽视所谓的冒犯并前进
You no longer need to placate anyone. Instead, ask yourself if those interactions feed or reduce your self-love.
你不再需要安抚任何人。而是，问问自己那些交互是否喂养或减少你的自爱
The new earth is not about interaction quantity but interaction quality
新地球不是关于交互的数量而是质量
Self-love reigns.
自爱主导
You might question how self-love applies to children, relatives, or life-long friends. Do you ignore them, drop them, confront them, or create something new? That decision is your new being freedom. Should no longer applies.
你可能想知道自爱如何应用于孩子、亲戚或终生的朋友。你忽视、抛弃、抗拒他们还是创造新的东西？这个决定是你新的存在自由。“应该”不再适用
Many of you question that freedom with thoughts of employers, relatives, friends, and others you gathered to fulfill your 3D needs.
你们许多人伴随着雇主、亲戚、朋友、其他你用来满足你3D需求之人的想法至移那个字油。
Many of you respond that you can release friends, but you need the job, or you have to take care of family members. If such is so, it behooves you to readdress your needs and, therefore, your interactions with them.
你们许多人说你能够放下朋友，但你需要工作或者你必须照顾好家人。如果是这样，有必要重新调整你的需求，从而，与他们的交互
Are you using the 3D love/friendship/employee applications you have for eons? Or do you believe you are important enough to declare freedom from those people and things that hold you captive?
你在使用你拥有了恒久的3D之爱/友谊/雇佣APP？还是你相信你足够重要来向那些困住你的人和东西宣称自由？
ThreeD love was a barter or financial exchange. You felt your heart was filled – not from the inside out, but the outside in. As you fill your heart with self-love, that 3D exchange no longer exits. You do not feel the need or have the energy to appease others because so much is happening within you. So it is you can no longer act the supplicant nor function as the almighty king/queen.
3D的爱是一个贸易。你感到你的心填满了---不是从内，而是从外。当你用自爱填满你的心，那个3D贸易不再存在。你并不感到需要或有精力去安抚别人，因为很多东西在你之内发生。所以你无法再作为恳求者或尊贵的国王/王后
New you does not have time or energy to make the lives of others better just so they will return the favor. As you fill with self-love, you will find yourself exploring relationships you once believed were lifelong, only to discover those relationships are no longer that interesting.
新的你没有时间或精力去让别人的生活变得更美好，这样他们就会给予你回报。当你充满自爱，你会发现自己探索你之前认为会持续一辈子的人际关系，却发现那些人际关系不再那么有意思
Do you wish to be with those people for something other than what they once gave you, or are you ready to flit to another interaction?
你希望为了不同于他们曾经给过你的东西与那些人在一起，还是你准备好飞向另一个交互？
Perhaps you believe you need certain beings in your life for if you let them go, there will be no one to replace them. We, of the Universes, can only respond that your 3D emotional safety net no longer exists. Not because it was bad or wrong, but because you are a new being in a new age.
也许你认为你生活中需要某些人，如果你放下他们，就没人来替换他们。我们只能回应你的3D情感安全网不再存在。不是因为它是不好的或错误的，而是因为你是一个新的存在，处于一个新的时代
The most essential part of your new being is self-love. A love that does not require you to negotiate with anyone. Nor does it require you to retain a certain number of people or items in your world to feel complete.
你新存在最重要的部分就是自爱。一个不需要你去和任何人谈判的爱。也不需要你去保持一定数量的人或物品来感到完整
Outer-directed indicates you cannot rule yourself without the aid of others. Inner-directed is the opposite.
外在导向表明没有别人的帮助你无法管理好自己。内在导向相反
Perhaps you are concerned you will be isolated.
也许你担忧你会被孤立
Loving yourself sometimes is lonely – especially at the beginning. Not because of the final rewards, but because you realize how little you had in common with many you held close to your heart. Even though they never filled your heart, what they bartered with you allowed you to feel as if your heart MIGHT be whole.
爱自己有时候是很孤独的---尤其在一开始。不是因为最终的回报，而是因为你意识到你与你亲近的人没有多少共同之处。即使他们从未让你失望，他们与你交换的东西让你感到好像你的心可能是完整的
You have required a whole heart since your inception light years ago – just as you now need oxygen to live on the earth. So be it. Amen.
从你进入这个梦中起你就想要一个完整的心---就像你需要氧气来活着。就是如此

原文：https://lifetapestrycreations.wordpress.com/.../your.../
日期：2022年6月6日
来自：Brenda Hoffman
译者：NickChan