八个迹象表明你处于有毒的道路

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八个迹象表明你处于有毒的道路

Wouldn’t it be great if the universe put up a huge sign, maybe in yellow neon lights, right in front of us when we are making the wrong decisions in life? Something like, “You’re going to regret that!”, or something to that effect?


如果宇宙能举起一个巨大的牌子，也许用黄色的霓虹灯，放到我们的面前，当我们做出错误的决定时，该有多好？好比，“你会后悔的！”或者类似的东西？


Since we are obviously not going to get these types of signs, we have to look very carefully to find the small signs in life that we are doing something wrong. If you continue to do these things, you are poisoning yourself.


既然很明显我们不会得到这类的牌子，我们必须非常仔细地寻找生活中微小的迹象，表明我们哪里做错了。如果你继续做这些事情，你就会毒害自己


Hence, why it’s called The Poison Path.


因此，它被称为有毒的道路


If you pay close attention to the way you feel, you will be able to figure out if you are about to make a bad decision even before you make it. Ready to learn how? Here are eight different ways to realize you are headed towards the poison path.


如果你关注你感受的方式，你就能明白你是否要做出糟糕的决定，在你做之前。准备好学习了吗？这里有八个不同的方式去意识到你在朝向有毒的道路


1. WHAT IS YOUR FIRST THOUGHT?


1.你的第一个想法是什么？


Your subconscious is smart- it is OK to rely on it. When you start thinking about the future, what emotion do you feel right off the bat? Is it a negative one? This is the universe telling you to consider what you are about to do before you actually do it.


你的潜意识是聪慧的，依赖它是可以的。当你开始思考未来，你会立刻感到什么样的情感？是消极的吗？这是宇宙在告诉你去思考你将要做的，在你做之前


2. EXHAUSTION


2.疲惫


Everyone experiences bouts of exhaustion now and again. But is it happening to you constantly?


每个人都会时不时地体验疲惫。但它是经常发生的吗？


Are you feeling a deep, intense tiredness that makes it almost impossible to get out of bed more mornings than not? There is something wrong and you should look into it if this occurs. Exhaustion can be the universe telling you something!


你是否感到一个深度的，强烈的疲倦，几乎让你早上都起不了床？有着什么是不对劲的，你应该去看一看，如果这些发生。疲惫可以是宇宙在告诉你些什么


3. BEING SICK AND TIRED


3.生病和劳累


This part goes along with being exhausted all of the time. Chronic stress and sadness can take a physical toll on the body as stress can cause the immune system to work overtime, making us ill and unable to fight off infections. This means that yes, you CAN be “sick and tired” of a career or job you hate!


这个部分总是紧随疲惫。长期的压力和悲伤会对身体敲响警钟，因为压力可以导致免疫系统的过载，让我们生病，无法抵御感染。这意味着，是的，你会对你厌恶的职业或工作感到“生病和劳累”


4. ALWAYS UNHAPPY


4.总是不开心


You don’t owe it to anyone to be happy all of the time. But if you find yourself constantly miserable and sad, it may be time to look at your life and where it is going. You may want to look for professional help or make different choices.


你不欠任何人去变得开心，时时刻刻。但如果你发现自己经常痛苦和悲伤，也许是时候去看向你的生活以及它在朝向哪里。你可能想要寻找专业的帮助或做出不同的选择


5. CARING WHAT OTHERS THINK


5.在乎别人的想法


We all care about what others think, to some extent- that’s perfectly normal. But when you start making major decisions based on the opinions of others, such as the type of house you purchase or the partner you choose, you’ll more than likely end up unhappy with your choice in the long run.


我们都在乎别人的想法，在某种程度上，这是很正常的。但当你开始基于他人的观点做出重大的决定时，比如买房子或结婚对象，你很可能最终会对自己的选择不满意，从长远看来


6. SAFETY FIRST


6.安全第一


Are you always making the “right” and “safe” choice when deciding what to do? It’s really ok to make a decision based on your heart and not the most logical plan of action.


你总是做出“正确”和“安全”的选择吗，当你决定要做什么时？基于你的心，而不是最符合逻辑的行动计划来做决定真的是可以的


Not only that, safe decisions don’t always work out anyway, so don’t be afraid to do something out of the box or unusual. You’ll find out just how satisfying it can be!


不仅如此，安全的决定并不总是奏效，所以不要害怕在箱子之外做事或不同寻常地做事。你会发现这会是多么地令人满意！


7. BEING DEFENSIVE


7.防守姿态


Are you constantly defending your decisions to the people around you? This could be a sign you are miserable with your choices because they aren’t the right ones.


你经常向周围的人捍卫你的决定吗？这可以是一个迹象，你的选择让你苦不堪言，因为它们不是正确的


However, sometimes you may just be around judgmental people, so take your time and examine whether or not the choices you are defending are indeed the right ones.


无论如何，有时候你可能处于喜欢评判的人周围，所以花点时间并检查你在捍卫的决定是不是正确的


8. LYING


8.说谎


Do you have to lie to yourself and others about the important things in life? If the answer is yes, this is a major red flag. This means that you are either unhappy with the things in your life or you don’t trust your circle of friends


关于生活中重要的东西你是否必须对自己和他人撒谎？如果答案是是的，这是一个重大的危险信号。这意味着你要么对生活中的事物不满意要么不信任你的朋友圈

翻译：Nick Chan https://mp.weixin.qq.com/s/YMp0f1gxdfbTNrnv2NUNvQ