当你的心说”是”以及你内在的声音尖叫着”不”

明曲

造物能量-当你的心说”yes”以及你内在的声音尖叫着”不”

Dear Ones,
亲爱的
You are beginning to align with your heart instead of your intellectual anger as you observe those who oppose you in thought or action.
你在开始与你的心对齐而不是理智上的愤怒，随着你观察那些在想法或行为中反对你的人
Despite your need to display your outer-self love resulting from your heart opening, you must honor yourself first. For perhaps you think heart-opening means once again that others are more important than you.
尽管你需要展示因敞开心而导致的外在-自爱，你必须先荣耀自己。因为也许你认为敞开心意味着别人比你更加重要
Without self-love, loving others more than yourself is merely another 3D caretaking mode with a different title. Because you were inundated with that philosophy in 3D, it is easy for you to again accept that displaying love means loving others is more important than loving yourself. Such is not true and never has been. Even so, that is a lesson some of you continue to have difficulties understanding.
没有自爱，爱他人超过爱自己只是另一个3D的照顾模式，用一个不同的标题而已。因为3D中这样的哲学泛滥，所以你很容易再次接纳展示爱意味着爱别人比爱自己更重要。这不是真的，从未是。即便如此，这是一个你们一些人依旧难以理解的课程
Your inner-voice is your new command center. You no longer need to depend on the approval of friends, neighbors, relatives, or co-workers. For doing so is merely a replication of your 3D life.
你内在的声音是你新的指挥中心。你不再需要依靠朋友、邻居、亲戚或同事的许可。因为这么做只是复制你的3D生活
The only approval you need now and forever is the sense of rightness you feel when your actions are from your heart, your new internal voice.
你唯一需要的许可就是当你的行动是来自你的心、你新的内在声音时你会感到的正确性。
Your being is filled with personal wisdom.
你的存在充满了个人的智慧
But just as was true months ago, this distinction may be a bit difficult to discern as you begin to display your new heart-opening. Even though your heart-opening will be a natural progression deepening throughout this earth life, your beyond 3D need to love yourself as much as others will redirect your actions.
但就像几个月前的那样，这个差别可能难以辨别，随着你开始展示你新的敞开心。即使你的敞开心在此生是一个自然发展的加深，你超越3D的爱自己以及他人会重新导向你的行为
You are combining self-love with heart-opening – a new and somewhat difficult combination for some of you. So it is you will jump between caretaking and self-love for a bit until you find your balance. Your heartstrings will likely be pulled by those who want you to care for them despite you needing to negate yourself to do so.
你在把自爱与敞开心联合在一起---一个新的、有点困难的联合，对你们一些人来说。所以你会在照看和自爱之间跳跃，直到你发现自己的平衡。你的心弦可能会被那些想要你照顾他们的人拨动，尽管你需要拒绝去这么做
Not everyone in your sphere of knowingness has completed the transition phases you have. Those beings who have not might be in narcissistic or other self-need modes that care little for your needs or dispair. Those beings might push you to the limit to determine how strong you are in your new being. A bit like a three-year-old sneaking a cookie before dinner. Such action is cute in a three-year-old but can be devastating to you in your new, somewhat fragile open heart state.
不是你认识的每个人都完成了你所完成的转变阶段。那些没有完成的人可能还处于自恋或其它自我需求的模式，不怎么在乎你的需求或失望。那些人可能会考验你的极限来确定你在你新的存在中有多强大。就像三岁的孩子在吃晚饭前偷吃了饼干。这样的行为在三岁孩童身上是可爱的，但在你新的、有点脆弱的敞开心状态中可以是毁灭性的
Those who have not yet transitioned to this point will test you in every way possible, for they need your energy to continue their self-centered actions. Some might even label such actions as emotional vampirism.
那些还未转变到这个点的人会在每一个方式中考验你，因为他们需要你的能量来继续他们以自我为中心的行为。一些人甚至会标签这样的行为是情感勒索
You will know if opening your heart to someone is appropriate for you or merely meeting their needs by the contentment and joy you feel during and after the interaction.
你可以通过交互期间和之后感到的满足与喜悦来判断你对某个人敞开心是否恰当还是只是满足他们的需求
You are opening your being in ways you never have before while of the earth. Doing so might attract those humans who feed off others without giving anything in return. Your need for the first few weeks of this new year is to discern which, if any of those beings, will bring joy to your being if you open your heart to them.
你在从未有过的方式中敞开你的存在。这么做可能会吸引那些吸食他人而不给予任何回馈的人。在新的一年的前几周你需要去辨别，如果你向他人敞开心，那些人是否会带给你喜悦
Many of you question the difference between 3D caretaking and this new declaration of your open heart.
你们许多人至疑3D照看和这个敞开心之间的区别
You will likely be a bit more vulnerable because your internal being is opening as never before. At the same time, those who crave the need for a caretaker will be attracted to you in ways you will likely not understand. Allow yourself time to ponder their needs versus your needs. Then allow yourself to say, “No” or “Let me think about that.” or to disconnect from those beings completely.
你可能会变得更加脆弱，因为你的内心前所未有地敞开。与此同时，那些渴望一个照顾者的人会在你可能无法理解的方式中被你吸引。给予自己时间沉思他们的需求VS你的需求。然后让自己说“不”或者“让我想想”。或者完全与那些人断开
Such will be difficult if they are family members, employers, or close friends. But remember you are on a new path with new skills, in a new earth. And everyone is evolving at a different pace in different ways.
如果他们是家人、雇主或亲密的朋友，这会是困难的。但记住，你处于一条新的道路上，伴随着新的能力，处于一个新的地球。每个人在不同的方式中不同的速度中进化
By not allowing someone – no matter their relationship to you – to take advantage of your new heart-opening, you might be encouraging them to evolve more rapidly. Their sequence of evolution is no longer your priority or even of interest. For those who wish you to do their inner work for them are merely parasites who will never evolve if they have your ongoing support despite your needs.
通过不让别人---无论他们跟你什么关系---利用你新的敞开心，你可能会鼓励他们去更加快速地进化。他们的进化序列不再是你的优先级或兴趣。因为那些希望你替他们做内在工作的人只是寄生虫，如果他们拥有你持续的支持，不管你的需求是什么，他们永远不会进化
You are no longer a savior of others. You forerunners completed your major earth shifting role. Your role now is similar to completing your course requirements and allowing yourself to address those fun courses that do not necessarily apply to your college major. Now, your key dynamic is self-evolution. The second and third waves following you are more likely to be transition models for those who want you to care for them without concerns about your needs or interests.
你不再是他人的拯救者。你们先驱已经完成了你主要的地球转变角色。你现在的角色类似于完成你的课程要求，让自己处理那些并不适用于你大学专业的有趣课程。现在，你的关键动态就是自我进化。第二和第三个波浪会是那些想要你照顾他们但不在乎你的需求或兴趣之人的转变模型
Allow yourself to evolve without feeling guilty that others are not or that others want you to do it for them. No one can transition on the backs of or through the caretaking of others. Ignoring your inner voice because you feel sorry for them or they touch your heartstrings despite your inner-voice shouting, “No!” is to delay your progress and theirs. So be it. Amen.
让自己进化而不感到内疚---他人想要或不想要你去替他们做。没人可以通过他人的照顾或踩着他人的背脊转变。忽视内在的声音---因为你对他们感到抱歉或者他们触动了你的心弦，尽管你内在的声音在大喊“不！”---就是拖延你的发展和他们的发展。就是如此。

原文：https://lifetapestrycreations.wordpress.com/.../when.../
传导：Brenda Hoffman
译者：NickChan