【天使】拥有自己的喜好

明曲

天使-拥有自己的喜好

My dear friends, we love you so very much,
我亲爱的朋友们，我们非常地爱你
So many of you are so hard upon yourselves. You live under a false premise that to be “holy” or “spiritual” you must like all things and all beings. This is a misunderstanding of love dear ones. While it is your very nature to love, you never came to the planet expecting that you would like, or more accurately resonate, with everyone and everything. The light within you does love the light within all beings and all things, but the personality that you embody on earth has its own unique preferences and desires and that is how it was intended to be.
许多人对自己很苛刻。你生活在一个虚假的前提之下---要变得“神圣”或“灵性”你必须喜欢所有东西、所有人。这是一个对爱的错误解读，亲爱的。虽然你的本质是爱，你来到地球从未期望你会喜欢，或更准确地说，与每个人和一切共鸣。你之内的光确实爱所有人和一切之中的光，但你体现在地球上的人格有着自己独特的喜好与渴望，它就该如此
When you came to earth, you knew you would love the variety, the contrast, and the incredible opportunities to create that would be inspired by dancing with one Love in so many different forms. You knew you would meet with souls that you love in the guise of different people and different personalities. You knew there would be some that would remember their connection to Love and some that would forget. You knew some would resonate with you and others would challenge you to love yourself. You knew you would have your preferences – your likes and dislikes – and you knew that these feelings would help you remember more about who you wish to be, what you wish to experience, what you would create, and how you want to grow.
当你来到地球，你知道你会爱多样性，反差，令人难以置信的机会去创造被“与如此多不同的爱之形式共舞”启发的东西。你知道你会遇见你喜爱的不同性格的人。你知道会有一些人记得他们与爱的连接，一些人会忘记。你知道一些人会与你共鸣，其他人会挑战你去爱自己。你知道你会有自己的喜好---喜欢和不喜欢---你知道这些感受会帮助你更多地忆起你希望成为什么样的人，你希望体验什么，你会创造什么，你想要如何成长
You came to earth, knowing that your feelings of affinity or repulsion were simply guiding forces to help you stay on the path of your greatest joy.
你来到地球，知道你的喜好和排斥只是指引力，会帮助你处于你最高喜悦的道路
Rather than judging yourself or the other when you feel a “like” or a “dislike,” give yourself permission to feel your preferences. Allow yourself to “like” or “dislike” any personality, thing, situation, belief, or behavior you encounter in your life. You have certain foods you prefer. You have certain outfits you prefer. You have certain decor and decorum that you prefer. You also have certain people, personalities, beliefs, and behaviors you prefer. This is as it was intended to be.
与其评判自己或别人，当你感到喜欢或不喜欢，允许自己去感受你的偏好。让自己去喜欢或不喜欢任何你遭遇的个性、事物、情况、信念或行为。你喜欢某些食物。你喜欢某些衣服。你喜欢某些装饰和礼仪。你也喜欢某些人、个性、信念、行为。都应该这样
Your soul loves the light within all things and all beings. Your human self has its preferences. You can love without liking, much as a mother loves the child whether or not she likes his/her behavior on a given day. You can love without liking much as a true friend might love you even if his or her beliefs are different from yours on a given topic. You can love without liking, much as a chef might love the diversity of ingredients from which to entertain his or her guests, in spite of not wanting to eat them all. You can love even if others don’t like you because it feels better for you to focus on the light within all.
你的灵魂喜欢一切事物和每个人之内的光。你的人类自我有着自己的偏好。你可以不带喜欢地爱，就像一个母亲爱自己的孩子，无论她是否喜欢孩子某天做出的行为。就像一个知己会爱你，即使在某个主题他/她的信念与你的不一样。就像一个厨师爱食材的多样性，可以招待各种客人，但不喜欢吃它们。你可以爱别人，即使别人不喜欢你，因为专注于一切之内的光让你感觉美好
The secret to your happiness is to enjoy the things, beings, and situations you like and to stop condemning and trying to change the ones you dislike. Be honest with yourself and make your choices accordingly:
幸福的关键是享受你喜欢的东西、人、情况，停止谴责并试图改变你不喜欢的。对自己诚实，并做出相应的选择：
“I am who I am. You are who you are. Life is what it is. What next?“
“我是我所是。你是你所是。生活是其所是。接下来是什么？”
When you like someone, enjoy them, or enjoy the thought of them. When you dislike someone’s behavior or personality you have many choices. Choose one that feels right for you. You can choose to look for good points if that feels better. You can choose to walk away. You can choose to observe quietly, and seek to understand or you can honestly decide that you have no interest whatsoever, in doing so. Whatever you choose, choose a response that feels most right and most loving for you. Trust that when you do what feels right in your soul, it will be right for all souls involved.
当你喜欢某个人，享受这个人或享受他们的想法。当你不喜欢某个人的行为或个性，你有很多选择。选择感觉起来恰当的。你可以选择寻找优点，如果这让你感觉美好。你可以选择离开。你可以选择静静地观察，寻求理解或者你可以诚实地决定你没兴趣去理解他/她。无论你作何选择，选择一个感觉起来最恰当最有爱的响应。相信，当你做感觉起来恰当的，它会对所有涉及的灵魂来说是恰当的
It may not feel loving to walk away kindly from someone, but we assure you that it is more loving to honestly walk away than pretend to like. The other person would sense your dissonance and the relationship would never truly be satisfying to either one of you. The other person may say they don’t want you to leave, but in their heart of hearts, they want someone who wants to be with them. One person’s rejection is another’s redirection.
爽快地离开某个人可能感觉起来不有爱，但我们向你保证，真诚地走开比起假装喜欢要有爱多了。另一个人会感到你的不共鸣，人际关系从未真正令你们两人满足。另一个人可能会说不希望你离开，但在他们的内心深处，他们想要的是想要和他们在一起的人。一个人的拒绝是另一个人的重新定向
It may not feel loving to keep quiet, rather than engage in a battle with someone who wants to argue but we would rather see one soul in peace than two at war. Ultimately, no matter how badly an ego wants an argument, all souls truly want peace.
保持安静可能感觉起来没那么有爱，与其和想要争论的人争吵，我们宁愿看到一个灵魂处于平和，而不是两个灵魂在吵架。最终，无论小我多么想要争论，所有灵魂都想要平和
It may not always feel loving to say “no I can’t honestly do that for you” when someone desperately wants you to do something for them, but it is loving to tell the truth rather than lying to please the other with a resentful heart. Ultimately all souls want gifts given freely and joyfully.
说“不，我真的不能替你去做”可能并不总是感觉有爱，当有人绝望地希望你去替他们做些事情时，但说实话比起伴随着一颗愤恨的心说谎来取悦他人更加有爱。最终，所有的灵魂都想要慷慨和快乐地赠予的礼物
There is a huge difference between judgment and discernment. Judgment says, “you have no right to be.” Discernment says, “you’re not right for me.”
在评判和洞察力之间有着巨大的区别。评判述说着“你没有全力站在这里”。洞察力述说着“你对我来说不恰当”
Dear ones, absolutely everyone, and everything have a place, a purpose, and a right to be in the great puzzle of life whether or not they fit naturally and easily with your piece of the puzzle! As in life, all pieces belong. As in life, not all belong together.
亲爱的，每个人，一切在生命拼图中都有着一席之地，一个目标，存在的全力，无论他们是否跟你的拼图碎片自然、轻松地匹配。所有碎片都从属于生命拼图。但并不跟彼此都搭
You were not put on this earth to eat every item in the grocery store, and you did not come to this earth to enjoy all people, all things, all situations, locations, beliefs, and all opinions. When you make peace with your preferences you will no longer have to argue over them, justify them, force them upon others, or try to bend and twist your own to match what others expect of you.
你不是来地球品尝超市中的一切的，你不是来地球享受所有人、事物、情况、地点、信念、观点的。当你与你的偏好处于平和，你不再会为了它们跟别人争吵，正当化它们，把它们强加给别人，或者试图歪曲它们来匹配别人对你的期望
A rose is here to be a rose. A tulip is here to be a tulip. A dog is a dog. A cat is a cat, and you are here to be the individual that you are now, and are continuing to become. The diversity of life helps you discover new preferences, learn new things about yourself, discover new talents, and figure out what you are ready to leave behind. The diversity of life helps inspire you to create and evolve as you journey through eternity.
一朵玫瑰是来成为玫瑰的。一朵郁金香是来成为郁金香的。一只狗是来成为一只狗的。一只猫是来成为一只猫的，你是来成为你现在这个人的，继续去成为。生命的多样性帮助了你发现新的偏好，了解自己，发现新的天赋，弄清楚你准备好放下什么。生命的多样性启发了你去创造和进化，随着你朝向永恒
So when you see something on the news that you don’t care for, or if you bump into someone whose opinion you don’t like; if someone rubs you the wrong way, or something feels distasteful, remind yourself, “This diversity is here to help me figure out who I am, who I wish to be, and how I want to dance with life. It has value. They have value.” Then shift to paying attention to what you DO like, what you DO prefer, what you wish to empower with your focused attention.
所以当你看到你不喜欢的新闻，或者撞到了你不喜欢其观点的人；如果有人惹你生气，或者有什么令你反感，提醒自己“这个多样性会帮助我弄清楚我是谁，我希望成为什么样的人，我想要如何与生活共舞。它有着价值。他们有着价值。”然后去关注你喜欢的东西，你希望用你的注意力瘦全的东西
Dear ones, don’t waste your precious life force focusing on the rightness or wrongness of life or anyone in it. Something right for your growth and joy may be completely wrong for another as surely as one diet is right for you, yet totally inappropriate for another; as surely as one outfit is right for you and your work, and totally inappropriate for another; and, as surely as one belief is right for your soul’s evolution and not at all useful to another.
亲爱的，不要把你宝贵的生命力专注于生活中或某个人的对与错。对你成长和喜悦来说正确的东西对另一个人来说可能是完全错误的，就像一种饮食对你来说正确，对另一个人来说完全不合适。就像一件衣服对你和你的工作来说恰当，对另一个人完全不恰当；就像一个信念对你灵魂的进化来说正确，对另一个人来说完全没用
Be right for yourselves in this moment, and stop trying to find an absolute right and wrong. Love is the only absolute right. You are allowed to have your preferences.
只有此刻对你来说是正确的，停止试图找到一个绝对的对与错。爱是唯一绝对的对。你被允许拥有你的偏好
So, give up the discussions of right and wrong. Stop analyzing who you should be in comparison to everyone else. Allow yourselves to have your likes, dislikes, and preferences, and we implore you, to allow that to set you free from the bondage of insisting others agree or trying to agree with all others. You are unique, precious, and perfect in this puzzle of life. So is everyone else.
所以，放弃对与错的讨论。停止分析与别人比较你应该成为什么样的人。让自己拥有自己的喜好、偏好，我们恳求你，去自由于要求他人同意你或试图同意他人的束缚。你是独一无二的，宝贵的，完美的，在这个生命拼图中。每个人都一样
God Bless You! We love you so very much.— The Angels
上帝祝福你！我们非常地爱你

天使

原文：https://eraoflight.com/.../the-angels-allow-for-your.../
日期：2022年2月3日
来自：Ann Albers
译者：NickChan