【大天使加百利】你的界线

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加百利-你的界线

2022年4月18日

As you evolve, your boundaries evolve, too. When you are at the beginning of your evolutionary journey, you may be living such a base existence that you are only interested in what you can get from others. You seek to fill yourself up from externals because you think that is the only way you can assure your own survival. Eventually you realize you cannot thrive by only breathing in.
随着你进化，你的界线也会发展。当你处于进化之旅的开端，你也许只拥有最基本的存在，也就是只对你能从别人那里得到的东西感兴趣。你寻求用外在的东西填补自己，因为你认为这是唯一能够保障自己生存的方式。最终你意识到你无法只靠吸气茁壮成长
Then, as you begin to awaken, you realize you wish to serve others, so you may over give, not allowing yourself to receive. You may swing wildly from one end of the spectrum to the other. You may feel that you can only feel good about yourself by giving so you give more and more. While your intentions are always noble, that will always ultimately lead to exhaustion. Eventually you realize you cannot thrive by only breathing out.
然后，当你开始苏醒，你意识到你希望服务别人，所以你可能过度付出，不让自己接收。你可能会在光谱的两端剧烈波动。你可能感到你只能通过付出感觉自我良好，所以你付出地越来越多。虽然你的意图总是高尚的，这总是会导向精疲力竭。最终你会意识到你无法靠只是呼气茁壮成长
As you realize you were an over giver, you might try to find a point of balance by trying to create set lines in concrete, thinking that is the healthiest ways to preserve yourself and your energy. But eventually you realize that while those lines may serve you well in some cases, they don’t apply to all instances. And you may find yourself feeling isolated and constrained by your self imposed restrictions.
当你意识到你是一个过度的付出者，你可能会试图找到一个平衡的点，通过创造牢固的界线，认为这是最健康的方式来保护自己和你的能量。但最终你会意识到虽然那些界线在一些情况中会很好地服务你，它们并不适用于所有情况。你可能会发现自己被自我强加的局限限制和隔绝
And finally, you arrive at the place where you realize that there are times where the flow supports you in giving, and other times when the flow supports you in receiving. You will come to accept that there are times of intensity where others might require more help, or times of intensity that require you to move into greater self care. You will also have the wisdom to know when it is time to step in and times to step back and allow others the chance to discover their own divine capability, holding a space of safety and encouragement for them to do so.
最终，你会意识到有时候流动会支持你付出，其它时候流动会支持你接收。你会接纳在强烈的时期，其他人可能需要更多的帮助，或者需要你进入更大的自我关怀。你也会有智慧去知道什么时候是去步入的时候，什么时候是退回的时候并给予别人机会去发现自己神圣的能力，保持一个安全和鼓励的空间让他们这么去做
We realize all of this can seem confusing at times. You are looking for a hard, fast rule that applies always. But when the flow is always moving, and people are taking huge steps forward, or sometimes needing to take steps backwards in order to hit a bottom that is required in order to redirect them, it can be difficult to know what to do.
我们意识到这一切有时候会看似令人困惑。你在寻找一个硬性的规则，能够总是适用的。但流动总是在移动，人们在迈出巨大的前进步伐或有时候需要后退几步，以便触底来重新定向自己，这会很难去知道该怎么做
And this is why we are here to tell you there is one general rule of thumb you can always use with your boundaries, and that is to seek the solutions that support the empowerment of everyone involved.
所以我们前来告诉你，有着一个基本的原则你可以总是应用于你的界线，那就是寻找支持授权每一个涉及之人的解决方案
Constantly rescuing another impedes their growth. Always telling another what to do, rather than supporting them to connect with their own wisdom and capability, sends a message that you don’t think they are capable of running their own lives. People grow and gain confidence by making their own decisions and learning from the feedback those actions provide.
不断地拯救另一个人会阻碍他们的成长。总是告诉另一个人该怎么做，而不是支持他们与自己的智慧和能力连接，就是在大声述说你认为他们没能力运营自己的生活。人类会通过做出自己的决定并从那些行为提供的反馈中学习来获得成长和信心
If someone is about to fall over and truly do harm to themselves, of course the right thing to do is to catch them before they fall. But we highly recommend you do so in a way that is always focused on the goal of them standing on their own again. This is no different than teaching a child how to walk.
如果有人要摔倒了，真的会伤害自己，当然正确的事情就是抓住他们。但我们高度建议去在“总是专注于让他们能够靠自己站起来”这样的方式中去做。这就像教导一个孩子如何走路一样
Boundaries are not about keeping people out, they are about finding a safe space of connection that honours the growth and well-being of everyone involved. This includes choosing to honour your own safe and supportive environment, as the foundation that allows you to make wise and loving choices for all. ~Archangel Gabriel through Shelley Young
界线不是关于拒他人于千里之外，而是关于找到一个安全的连接空间，荣耀每个涉及之人的成长和福祉。这包括选择荣耀你自己的安全和支持性的环境，作为能够让你做出明智的有爱的选择的基础，为了所有人。

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原文：https://trinityesoterics.com/.../daily-message-monday.../
译者：NickChan