【前世模式】13 不适者模式

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前世模式13——不适者模式

Past Life Patterns – The Unwell

原文：http://yoursoulmission.com/2014/01/past-life-patterns-the-unwell/

This is the description of one of the 16 Past Life Patterns. These patterns were developed by Karen Downing, in order to help you understand how past life experiences affect your life today. Each person carries 3 to 5 past life patterns in varying levels of influence. By understanding your unique mix of patterns, you can more easily build up your strengths and transform your challenges. Past life patterns are the key to uncovering your Soul Mission.

这篇是16个前世模式之一的描述。这些模式是Karen Downing总结出来的，为了帮助你理解前世经历如何影响你今生的生活。每一个人都携带着3-5个前世模式，他们有不同程度的影响。通过理解你个人的独特的前世模式组合，你可以更容易地增强你的力量并转化你的挑战。前世模式是发现你的灵魂使命的关键。
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The Unwell Description – The Unwell is focused on body issues, problems, challenges, diseases and disorders. They have a belief that the physical body is inherently flawed and is going to experience problems. This comes from many past lives, where the Unwell either experienced a disease or injury that changed their life drastically, or caused them to lose their life. Because of this, the Unwell has a tendency to focus on their physical body now. The Unwell feels most confident when they are addressing the needs of their own body in some way. Deep down, the Unwell fears that they will meet the same end they did in their past life experiences.

不适者模式
不适者聚焦在身体方面的事项、问题、挑战、疾病和失调。他们有一个观念认为物理身体天生就是有瑕疵的，并且将会经历问题。这来自许多前世里，不适者要么经历了疾病或彻底改变他们生活的（身体）伤痛，或者造成他们丧失生命。由于这一点，不适者有倾向关注他们现在的物理身体。不适者在解决他们自己身体的某些需要时感觉最自信。内心深处，不适者害怕他们会有与前世经历里一样的结局。

The Unwell is extremely in tune with their body, and this can be both positive and negative, as it all depends on how the Unwell uses this knowledge in their life now. The Unwell would make an excellent nutritionist, healer, personal trainer, rehab counselor or anyone else who focuses on the health and well-being of the body in some way. However, the Unwell still tends to hide their own deep fears about their body failing them one day, and they can feel extremes when it comes to how they perceive of their body, moving from feeling great to feeling down at a moment’s notice. The Unwell is also quite sensitive to any comments that others make about body-centric topics, more so if those comments are actually directed at the Unwell.

不适者极端地与他们身体协调一致，这既可能是积极正面的也可能是消极负面的，因为这都取决于不适者如何在他们现在的生活中使用这份知识。不适者会成为一个出色的营养师、疗愈师、个人教练、康复顾问或任何其他以某种方式关注健康和身体福祉的人。然而，不适者仍倾向于隐藏他们自己内心深处的恐惧，这恐惧是有关他们的身体总有一天会辜负他们。并且就他们如何感知他们身体而论，他们可能有极端感觉，前一刻还感觉非常棒，下一刻就感觉很沮丧。不适者也对他人有关身体话题所做的评论很敏感，如果那些评论实际上是针对这个不适者的，就更是这样（更敏感）。

Some of the typical past life experiences of the Unwell are: being in a disfiguring accident, being born with a serious physical challenge, dying of a long term debilitating disease, experiencing a disease or accident during a life that changed the way they were able to care for themselves. If you find that the majority of your daily thoughts tend to focus in on your body and what it is doing, then you hold the past life pattern of the Unwell.

有一些典型的不适者的前世经历是：遭遇损毁外形的事故、生来就有严重身体不便（残疾）、死于长期性的衰竭性的疾病、在某一世里经历了疾病或事故，这疾病或事故改变了他们曾经能够照顾自己的方式。如果你发现你大多数想法倾向于聚焦在你的身体以及身体在做着什么，那么你有不适者的前世模式。

Expression of the Unwell Pattern in Your Life Now – The Unwell fears that something will go wrong with their body one day, and they permit this fear to rule everything in their life. There is not one day where the Unwell is not focused on their body. In fact, they focus on their body so much, the thoughts of body awareness take up a good 60% of their daily thought patterns! The Unwell also has fear of needing to be dependent on others some day, this is because in the past they had undergone an experience that left them unable to take care of all of their own personal needs in some way. The Unwell feels that they can be a burden on others, and will often apologize for things that they do not need to be apologizing for. This feeling of being a burden shows up the most in romantic relationships, where the Unwell feels that they are being bothersome to their partner, even if the Unwell is engaging in normal household activities, like watching a movie or cleaning the house. If they assess that their activities are interfering with their partner’s well-being in any way, the Unwell will stop immediately, to resume these things another time.

统治者模式在你现在生活中的表达

不适者害怕身体总有一天会出毛病，并且他们允许这个恐惧统治他们生活里的一切。不适者没有一天不把他们的注意力放在他们身体上的。实际上，他们把注意力关注在他们的身体上太多了，他们身体意识的想法占据了他们日常想考模式的60%以上！不适者也害怕有一天会需要依赖他人，这是因为在前世里，他们经历这样的经历让他们没有办法照顾他们自己的某些需要。不适者感觉他们可能成为他人的负担，会通常为一些他们根本没有必要道歉的事情而道歉。这种成为负担的感觉在婚恋关系中展现最多，不适者感觉自己令他们的伴侣讨厌，即使不适者从事正常的日常活动，如看电影或打扫屋子，（他们也有这样的感觉）。如果不适者评估他们的活动正以某种方式干扰伴侣的福祉，不适者会立即停止，换个时间在继续这些事情。

There are two ways that the Unwell theme reveals itself; The Anxious Unwell and the Denying Unwell. If you resonate with The Unwell pattern, you might discover that you can possess qualities of one, or even both, of the ways that The Unwell pattern is expressed. Often in one area of life you can feel one way, and in another area of life feel another way.

不适者主题有两种方式呈现其自身：即焦虑型不适者以及否认型不适者。如果你与不适者模式有共鸣，你也许会发现你可能会有以上两种不适者表达模式中的一种或甚至两种都有。通常，在一个生活领域中，你可能感觉是一种样子，在另一个生活领域里，你感觉可能又是一个样子。

The Anxious Unwell – The Anxious Unwell is busy spending up all of their time and money looking for cures, herbs, supplements, healing modalities or anything else that can fix whatever they feel their body challenges are. It does not matter if the Anxious Unwell has actually experienced a serious illness in this life or not, they are treating every “problem” with the body as if it is a serious condition. The Anxious Unwell can over saturate their mind with possible symptoms, conditions, and what those symptoms indicate, often taking things to a worse-case-scenario place in their mind. Because of this, they will go to the acupuncturist, doctor, chiropractor, healer, etc., much more frequently than others. The Anxious Unwell often apologizes for “not doing enough” to help others, even though anyone who knows them would say that they are a very capable and wonderful friend. The Anxious Unwell will not like it if anyone tries to come in and change something in their environment, especially if it has to do with food, exercise, healing, supplements or anything else body related. If you are someone who is often reading up (and trying) on different healing methods, treatments and/or natural cures, then you showcase the past life pattern of the Anxious Unwell. The Anxious Unwell’s biggest lesson is to learn about how they can manifest body health, but not through stress and worry about the body.

焦虑型不适者

焦虑型不适者忙于倾其所有时间和金钱来寻找治疗法、草药、补充剂（译注：如维生素、微量元素如钙铁锌硒、营养品等等）、疗愈方式或任何其他可以修理他们感觉的身体（健康）方面的无论什么样的挑战。焦虑型不适者是否在他们生活中实际经历了严重疾病这都无关紧要，他们对待每个身体方面的“问题”都好像这个问题是一个非常严重的状况似的。焦虑型不适者把头脑里装满了过多的可能的症状、状况以及这些症状意味着什么，通常在头脑中把事情引向最糟糕的情形。由于这一点，他们比其他人更经常去看医生、针灸医生、脊椎指压治疗师、疗愈师等等。焦虑型不适者通常为帮助他人“没有做得足够多”而道歉，即使认识他们的任何人都说他们是一个非常能干非常好的朋友。如果任何人尝试进入并改变他们的环境中的某件事情，那么焦虑型不适者将不会喜欢这样，尤其是这（被改变的事情）与食物、锻炼、治疗、补充剂或任何其他与身体相关的东西有关。如果你是一个经常研读（并且尝试）不同的疗愈方法、不同的治疗和/或自然疗法，那么你展现了焦虑型不适者的前世模式。焦虑型不适者的最大功课是学习他们如何能够显化身体健康，但不是通过对身体的压力和担心来显化。

The Denying Unwell – The Denying Unwell is given he name because they loath going to the doctor, and will often ignore medical advice. The Denying Unwell firmly believes that they body will fail them anyway, so why not stay out of medicine and hospitals, as the Denying Unwell feels that those environments affect the quality of their life. The Denying Unwell will often hold onto a habit, like smoking or sneaking certain foods, long after it has been told to them that this habit is unhealthy. Their philosophy is: if I like what I do, then today is a good day. However, the Denying Unwell also has a need to complain about their age, or aches and pains (it is like they resign themselves to these experiences). They also do not want to be a burden on others, and it is this feeling that prevents them from going to the hospital and treatment centers, as they feel those environments as making them vulnerable to “the health care system.” They would much rather control their own environment by staying home and “riding this out.” The Denying Unwell can often be gruff and stern, and at times, inappropriate comments come out of their mouth. They will apologize afterward if they hurt your feelings, but deep down they feel like life is about doing what they want, even if that is making an inappropriate comment. If you avoid doctors and hospitals, are having difficulty with quitting smoking (or other habit that you know is not good for you) and have a blunt personality, then you showcase the past life pattern of the Denying Unwell. The Denying Unwell’s biggest lesson is to open themselves up to listen to others, and to release the feeling of entitlement as related to “bad” behavior.

否认型不适者

否认型不适者因为他们不情愿去看医生并且经常忽视医嘱而得名。否认型不适者坚定地认为不管怎样他们的身体都会辜负他们，所以为什么不不要吃药不去医院呢，因为否认型不适者感觉那些环境影响他们生活的质量。否认型不适者经常紧紧抓住一个习惯不放，如抽烟或偷偷吃某些食物，在很久之前他们就已经被告知了这个习惯是不健康的，（但是他们还是这样做）。他们的哲学是：如果我喜欢我所做的事情，那么今天就是个好日子。然而，否认型不适者也有一个需要就是抱怨他们的年纪、或各种各样的病痛（就好像他们对这些经历听之任之了）。他们也不想要成为其他人的负担，就是这种感觉使他们不想去医院和治疗中心，因为他们认为那些环境使他们易于遭受“卫生保健体系”的影响。他们更宁愿通过待在家里或“忍耐过去（病痛）”而控制他们自己的环境。否认型不适者可能通常会粗暴严厉，有时，不恰当的评论从他们嘴里说出来。如果他们伤害了你的感情，过后他们会道歉，但是，在内心深处他们感觉好像生活就是关于做他们想做的事情，即使（他们想做的事情）是做一些不恰当的评论。如果你避免看医生和去医院，很难戒烟（或任何其他你知道对你不好的习惯），并且有生硬的个性，那么你展现了否认型不适者的前世模式。否认型不适者的最大功课是敞开内心聆听他人，并且释放那些与“不好的”行为有关的特权感。

Past Life Pattern Breakdown:
- Body focused thoughts are prevalent
- Fears being a “burden” on others
- Can be overly apologetic
- Tends to be stubborn in how they choose to manage their body anxiety  

前世模式故障

- 聚焦于身体的想法盛行
- 害怕成为他人的“负担”
- 可能会过度的道歉
- 倾向于在他们如何选择管理他们的身体焦虑方面非常倔强  

Affirmation – “It is safe for me to trust my body now. I will not experience a repeat of what has happened before. I release the fear of disease and injury and allow myself to live a safe, stress-free and happy life.”

肯定语

“现在信任我的身体对我来说是安全的。我不会经历之前所发生的事情的重演。我释放害怕疾病和伤痛的恐惧，并允许我自己过一种安全、没有压力和幸福的生活。”

Learn more about how the Unwell pattern is showing up in your life by enrolling in the On-Demand video course, Exploring Past Life Patterns.
了解更多有关不适者模式如何出现在你的生活中，可以参加视频课程探索前世模式（英文）http://yoursoulmission.com/exploring-past-life-patterns/

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